When the one you love lives far away, it can be difficult to maintain your relationship.
While the old adage says distance makes the heart grow fonder, that's
not always the case. If you want to make you and your sweetheart's
relationship last, you have to work at it. Here are five helpful tips to
keep the passion in your relationship even if you are apart.
2. Play Games: , "A little competition is healthy for a long-distance
relationship. It also creates the good type of 'sexual tension' that all
relationships need to survive." Find a game online that you can both
play together, or take Soletti's advice and create your own game. One of
her personal favorites is "the movie game" in which you pick an actor
or actress and go back and forth naming all the movies the star
performed in until one of you gets stuck and can't think of another
film. Many games that are played in person can be played over the phone
or online. Add some fun into the relationship and learn to enjoy one
another's company this way.
4. Stay Sexy: "Get some sizzlin', smokin'-hot pictures taken," relationship expert and founder of AskApril.com, April Masini, suggests. "This gesture is fun and sexy." Don't want to spend big bucks? Snap some cute pictures of yourself (keep them classy!), or tell your man about the sexy outfit you're going to wear when you see him again. Keep your partner fantasizing about you with this flirty idea.
5. Define Boundaries: Everyone has boundaries, expectations, and their own opinions of what's okay and what's not. To keep your partner and yourself on the same page, talk about your intentions and make sure you both understand each other's needs. Is it okay to cuddle up next to a friend of the opposite sex while watching TV, or does that infringe on your partner's idea of monogamy? Huffington Post suggests discussing how you define monogamy and laying out what is acceptable and what is not, Carrie Krawiec, aptly explains, "The foundations of any relationship are communication and the development of shared meaning, goals, roles and rules."